I actually have several pictures of Asher and I from this past week and was debating about which one to use. Â This one was taken on his birthday after Ricke and I gave him his birthday cake and it’s special to me. Â When I first looked at it I instantly noticed myself and said what a terrible picture. Â But the picture is not about me. Â The picture is about the memory of Asher having his cake and getting it all over himself and the floor. Â It’s about the family time that Ricke, Asher, and I had that night. Â It’s about being in the picture with my son. Â And that’s why it’s special to me.